Marcp reloading is a learning curve done mostly by yourself. Trial and hopefully no error. When I started some 40 years ago it was at the kitchen table with a Lee hand held, dipper and a dead blow hammer, and crossed fingers.
When I bought my first house then I set up a small area with a rock chucker kit some dies and it has grown from there. Now that I am retired I do a lot more experimenting but once I find a good accurate load that's it I stop there.
First thing I would suggest join the paid group here so you can access the archives, then get a couple of reference books and read them through(differring opinions).Then be prepared to spend lots of time at the range and most of your spare cash on components, find quite time and go to town.
Connecticut isn't so bad, but know with getting older I am beginning to think Florida is looking nice, especially with what is coming tomorrow.