OK guys I'm all set. Seems the biggest problem was the nut on the end of the handle...me!
After some adjusting and relubing, I was so scared of over lubing as warned in many manuals, I was a little too sparing with the lube.
As I re-resize my brass I can feel them travel about another 1/64th or so and they now chamber easily!

I feel pretty dam stupid and I guess I should have tinkered at it a little more before posting.

Thank you